Thursday, September 04, 2008

Nine years and look where we are.

Around nine and a half years ago my heart was taken by this exciting, kind, spiritual, smart, kind of kooky, down to earth, and may I also add good looking guy. Oh was I smitten. :) It didn't take me long to hope he would be the one. After a surprise proposal I knew my life would never be the same again. Luke was everything and more then I had hoped for in a husband. I couldn't wait to see what the future would bring us.

So, on Sept.4, 1999 I had one of the best days of my life. We were married in the Portland Oregon Temple. I remember having a slumber party with my sisters the night before and not believing how quickly the morning came. I believe we were married at 10:00 in the morning. It was one of the first sealings of the day. We were sealed by the Temple President of the time, President Sellers. (Who also was a past Mission President of my Mission, weird huh??) I remember him speaking a lot about our children and how they would be our greatest source of joy. It really was a beautiful ceremony.

Like I said earlier I feel blessed to be able to say our wedding day was one of the best days of my life.
I feel like our life together has already in just 9 years been full of many different seasons. Our first few years together (which were childless) were spent traveling, traveling, and traveling some more. We just had a BLAST! Life was blissful.


Then we were blessed with Kar and our life got even better. She was an easy baby and we were able to basically continue with our travels and blissful life.


Luke graduated from college and we headed off to Flight School were our life started to experience a few changes. I guess you could say reality finally made it's way to our simple life together. There is so much I could say about this time, but I'll spare you the details. I will say this though. Now after the fact I can actually say I can see the blessings that came from that time. One that stands out to me in regards to Luke is being able to see attributes in Luke that I'm not sure I would of ever seen if we hadn't gone through our rough times together. Such as, learning that Luke has got some major endurance, not to mention a very strong work ethic. Excuse my language but Luke works his BUTT off to provide for our family. Sometimes taking on two extra jobs on the side of his flying job. There has been two different times in our life when Luke held three jobs and barley found time to sleep, just so I could stay at home with the kids. I'm grateful he has always recognized the importance of having me at home.

I also was able to see as our children entered our lives what an incredible Dad he is. I know I've said this before , but Luke is a hands on kind of Dad. I think he learned it from his own Father. He is also ALWAYS more then willing to take the kids when ever I need to get away or have some time to myself. I'm so grateful for that. Even after pulling almost an all nighter at work he comes home and will eat breakfast with kids and read scriptures and say family prayer with them before Kar is off to school.


So, nine years, four kids, a lot of good times, and a lot of challenging times later. Here we are. I've gained so much respect and adoration for Luke through the years. I've always told Luke when it comes to me being a good wife, "I'm a work in progress". What can I say, some of us are just more flawed then others. But I can honestly say I try harder every day to be a better me. Thanks for loving me regardless, most of the time. (Just kidding) Love you lots honey bunny! Here's to many more life experiences together. Happy Anniversary!

16 comments:

Anonymous said...

Happy Anniversary! We love you guys. You two are an amazing couple and you are a great strength to Luke and Luke is a great strength to you. We love you guys.

Dalynn said...

Congratulations you two. You're great!

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Elizabeth said...

Jen, that was a touching post. Happy Anniversary!

Sandy said...

Jenn, you're right on with the things you said about Luke. He's pretty good!! and he started most of that by marrying a fantastic woman!! I've always admired the way you mother and the way you support Luke. Together, you're amazing.

Hailey Vial said...

Congrats on 9 great years! I remember being at your reception and how beautiful you looked in your wedding dress. Nic and I will celebrate our 9th on tuesday. It was a good year to get married.

KIC said...

Happy Anniversary!!

Dan Thomas said...

Happy Anniversay to you both. You are great. Jenn I know that Luke is a very good dad and that you are and excellent mom. Keep up the good work. (And it is work.)

NelsonFam said...

Wow - 9 years already. I remember that summer so well and it didn't seem that long ago. Congrats again, I am glad we got to visit earlier this year. We learned alot about what kind of parents we want to be from watching the both of you.

Will Thomas said...

Congrats! Enjoy this next year, cause you're heading for double digits soon! And that's old! LOL

Mel said...

Happy Anniversary! You guys make such a great couple! I love your blog background!

Tonya said...

Happy anniversary! You really did marry your best friend it sounds like. I love that you want to be a better you everyday because of Luke. That's how I feel about Matt. We are lucky ladies:0)

Dan Thomas said...

Double digits is not that old. What until you get lots more than that.

Jenni said...

Sorry it's taken me so long to comment, but I loved your post! You two are such examples to me. Happy anniversary!

Jene and Megan said...

Congrats to you two!! I loved the pictures. I hope you guys had a great anniversary!!

The Allred Family said...

I LOVED that post. It was soooooo genuine. We do learn from those rough times, don't we? And they refine us. That's what marriage is...a refining process that gets very very hot sometimes!! :) I mean difficult and trying and then it can so rewarding. Anyway, thanks for sharing that and your honesty.